She's been dating a guy for a year and a half now. It's quite normal to miss our ex's sometimes, but it doesn't always mean you should get back together. I felt very comfortable with my ex. A lot of people (myself included) think this means that they are still in love with them. It doesn't matter that it's two years later; the history is still there, and you're bound to think about them. We might have shared years or decades of music, and hearing those songs almost always makes us miss our ex wife in some way. I think I am depressed but don’t want drugs. I still work because I am 58. She says she wants nothing to do with any man. You love your abusive partner so much so that you justify the abuses and would not want to leave them. We email some and text. Partner. His apology. She always had emotionally dependance on me, maybe she spread that to me I don’t know haha. Is it normal to miss your ex after 2 years? And yet 20 years later I still think of Sarah. I recently sent her an email (email was only option cause she would not answer my call and she rarely ever texted me back) the email was telling her how I still care for her an miss her dearly. Still miss my ex after 5 years. I dreamt of her frequently (and still do). Sometimes if you see your ex in a dream, it means that you just want to have what you had with them. I know know how you feel. I cant seem to get him out of my mind. We dated for 2.5 years. Then I lost my best friend. New Reply. Things fell apart when she went to college. In … Home → Forums → Relationships → More than 1 year later and I still miss my ex. I was so devastated that I left the country to try to get over her. with him i could be myself and i was feeling peace. I’m Sorry for What Happened. I always tried to understand and encouraged her to find help for herself. We were dating for a short 2 months and I felt myself falling hard and fast for him. Hello, my ex dumped me after 5 years of relationship. I still miss my ex after two years? November 16, 2017 at 7:52 am #178329. The last 6 months together was spent arguing. I panicked and told him I don’t think I could do this. My ex and I have been broken up for a year and 4 months. Hi Everyone Hope someone can give me some advice. Even though time has gone by, it's completely normal to miss someone that you were with romantically. I was the one that divorced him. I deal with people daily and do not like my job. Oct … xPersephonex 1 Posted January 7, 2009. xPersephonex. We could talk about everything and laugh. why do i still miss my ex after 2 years almost? He was the boyfriend I loved for three years until I met my dear husband whom I have been married to for 29 years. She was a great friend. 2. Now nearly two years later I still miss him ddearly. Is it normal that I still miss my ex after nearly two years? I miss her greatly . But that doesn’t mean that breaking up with him came any easier to me. I met a lovely woman and we married 10 years ago. We broke up for a variety of reasons some of which mirror yours. Viewing 6 posts - 1 through 6 (of 6 total) Author. 5 years later, I do all the things generally advised – I went back to work ( soon to retire), volunteer, visit the elderly, meet friends, go to the gym, practise yoga, and have other hobbies. At 60, after 40 years with my husband, he left me and married a woman 25 years younger, very soon after our divorce. When she divorced me she had no grounds. My only relationship so far, and I still love her so much, though I haven't seen her since the breakup. I realized that my ex girlfriend I had was the best for me. 5. Love, Heartbreak. Ten reasons you’re still obsessed with your ex - but why getting back together could be an even bigger mistake. People often dream about their exes for years after they break up. I split up with my ex 5 years ago. He was angry as we had separated 5 years prior for 6 months after a trauma I had and I needed my time to recover. New Member : Jun 20, 2007, 02:08 AM What happened here no reports maybe he got her back after 5 years... SpottieOttie33 Posts: 12, Reputation: 3. It had been a long distance relationship for a while by then but just got worse then. Still miss my ex after a year of no contact Still miss my ex after a year of no contact. You want to have those feelings for someone again. “This can be someone who was in your life 30, 40, or 50 years ago, but you still find yourself dreaming about this person. The short answer is that, yes, they very much miss you. I wish I could tell people it gets better but it does not when you miss the love of your life. I see him now and then. I go … The path to healing here is to focus on growing your own self-confidence, and feeling like you're moving towards your goals. It lasted three years and ended very painfully for me. Five years later and I (27m) still miss my ex (27f) Close. Is it normal that after 5 years I still miss my ex? I dropped my ex boyfriend like a hot potato 30 years ago. We were together for 3 years and lived together for 2 of them. My ex and I broke up a while ago after five years as a couple. She never responded. I do know that he is at peace and at rest. Hearing only what you want to hear. I try to stay busy but most of the time it’s just around our house. It depends on many things, such as what happened and why. I believe during that time my illness became worse, which affected our marriage. I dont know why, I thought I had moved on and stopped thinking about my ex. This is often true when your Ex has moved on before you have. . Well she found "help" with a therapist, but this therapist reccomended to her to divorce. I'm dating a new girl now, and she's great to/for me. 8 years ago. We knew where we fit in, even if it wasn’t a perfect fit. Tracey Cox explains why many women can't get over their former partners Take this 60 second quiz to find out! Do the right thing and break up with your current boyfriend or girlfriend. Maybe it was big things, like moving to a new city together or traveling the world together. I do miss my ex after 10 years divorced. But this isn’t necessarily so. I told him we could talk over the phone. Should I contact her? Photo: Luke Pennystan via Unsplash. He asked me if I would give him the opportunity to say them to me. No common interests tho, except animation movies. We used to run a business together and work ended up ruining our relationship. We are both successful professionals and have two beautiful children together. No matter how few and far between, we shared good times. New Member : Jun 20, 2007, 07:18 AM Originally Posted by aaron80. Archived. I started do get more and more confused with my feelings and scared. I worked for a while after graduating, then went to graduate school, moved across the country, and established my career. We had same values and goals. I still love him with everything I have. We spent al our time working and never made anytime for ourselves. After all, the two of you shared so many memories together, right? We married right out of college. I miss him so much and think of him every single day. Share Followers 0. No matter how much abuse you are, you would not leave because you are emotionally attached … None of it has worked. All Topics Topic Family & People Relationships » Still miss my ex after 5 years. Unanticipated, unasked, over five years later. W hen I was 19, I had my first girlfriend. Page 2 of 3 « First < 2 > Last» aaron80 Posts: 16, Reputation: 5. “Does My Ex Even Miss Me at All?” Today, I’m going to answer that for you.. . Then the other day when out to dinner with my current girlfriend, 2 girls sat at the table across from ours and 1 of them looked a LOT like my ex, and it just ruined my … Should I contact her? Posts. Five years later and I (27m) still miss my ex (27f) I've been in a decent amount of relationships since my break up with my ex of 5 years and even though I'm in a relationship with an amazing girl, I look forward to sleeping because I might have a dream about my ex. 5 Reasons You Still Miss Your Abusive Ex! I met a great guy, he seemed too good to be true. My ex had these things to say to me after our relationship had ended over five years earlier. My ex is still pretty attractive but doesn't date at all. Are you repelling your ex? I miss him every day. How long did your relationship last? It's just not fair to your new sweetie, and it won't help you get over your ex any more quickly. (1) You suffer from Stockholm Syndrome: Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological condition when the victim is made to develop a crazy empathy for the abuser. If You're Still Missing Your Narcissistic Ex After They're Gone, Read This . reply #3. wilmx52. Those good feelings and shared experiences we once had with our ex wife are hard to just turn off after the divorce. why do i still miss my ex girlfriend 5 years ago? After close to a year of walking along with him, there came a point when I no longer felt like we were in sync. We shared inside jokes. At the time i was still having little feelings for my ex crush. after 5 years the pain I think is worse . I say to myself to what end? if I ever get another chance with her I will treat her as a queen . but I met her when I was 20 and she was 17 . His email said that he’d had some things on his mind. this is something normal?? This topic has 4 replies, 5 voices, and was last updated 3 years, 2 months ago by anita. 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